From what I'm gathering, it sounds like something bad happens, a reset is triggered, and then you guys start on a clean slate. However, I doubt the life experiences, memories, and personalities from before completely disappear. Maybe if say a headmate was really sad, everything resets, and then the new headmates feel okay? The sadness was rejected?
Fazzie
Do you guys have parallel processing or is only the ones around the conciousness that are awake?
From what I'm gathering, it sounds like something bad happens, a reset is triggered, and then you guys start on a clean slate. However, I doubt the life experiences, memories, and personalities from before completely disappear. Maybe if say a headmate was really sad, everything resets, and then the new headmates feel okay? The sadness was rejected?
There are a lot of people who are "endogenic" systems, a lot of people claiming they are traumatic systems, plural kit is used for it's intended purpose outside of plural servers, and now there's a big thing blowing up on TicTok where plural systems are getting a lot of attention
Also - how do you guys like, remember who the system is irl? Does other people irl know about this all? If you trigger it outside for example do you remember how to walk back home?
Fazzie
So do you guys just, don't handle your emotions and instead just reset?
Also - how do you guys like, remember who the system is irl? Does other people irl know about this all? If you trigger it outside for example do you remember how to walk back home?
Do you have a consistent system identity? Even if the headmates are different, do you guys want to get the same career, eat the same food, want to hang out with the same people?
Do you have a consistent system identity? Even if the headmates are different, do you guys want to get the same career, eat the same food, want to hang out with the same people?
i don't understand the problem to be honest? even people that don't have tulpas wear social masks. we just "wear the same masks" in the real world(edited)
When I switch I find it easier to blend in with Gray's family by pretending to be Gray. In other situations, Gray and I talk about our public mask and what is and isn't allowed
in my opinion it's ok for tulpas to have their own interests, but if that interrupts your daily life it might be too much
you can still experience stronge individuality and accept that functionality sometimes needs to focus less on yourself
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But every ego have to get at least little differences in the daily routine, no ?
as i mentioned we did have a few generations where people just wanted to do their own things and it was pretty hard and was taking way too much willpower to manage which wall the cause for poofs
in my opinion having conflicting desires is a bit egocentric (from a headmate perspective) - not in a judgemental way - and a bit naive approach without accepting the reality that you are and will always be living the same life(edited)
it got much better with time and not at all stressful
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in my opinion having conflicting desires is a bit egocentric (from a headmate perspective) - not in a judgemental way - and a bit naive approach without accepting the reality that you are and will always be living the same life (edited)
That sounds disappointing. I can see why you don't want to be reset, there's a lot of choices you could make if you stuck around.
I get it if having choices isn't as important as living in the moment, but I get the sense that's not what you want
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